中西方家庭教育差异英.ppt

China,Western Countries,PK,Family Education,About Education,Success can not be copied,so does education.,The stirring of this intense debate has to do with what does it mean to be a successful parent and what does it mean to be a successful child?“,,LOGO,About Education,Parents are the first teacher of their children.,The family education is related to a persons life.,,LOGO,different educational purposes,differences,the value of family education,1,education method,2,emotional education and punishment,3,education in managing money,4,5,,LOGO,the value of family education,China Care about the reputation in educating the child. The educations goal is for making their living, for honor.,Western Countries Education is not the preparation for making their living, but for survival. Emphasize “the learned education.”,,LOGO,education method,China Emphasize mechanical(机械的) memorizing. If the book is read hundreds of times, its meaning is shown naturally. (书读百遍，其义自现),Western Countries Emphasize the childs “power of understanding.” Seeking the knowledge from life and nature.,,LOGO,emotional education and punishment,China,Western Countries,Emphasize “reserve”. Such characters as “no”, “cannot”, “wont do”, “do not ”appear repeatedly. One can not become a useful person without being beaten. (不打不成材 ） The club helps the child to be loyal son.（棍棒底下出孝子）,Using the encouraging language. Pay great attention to individual quality and the emotional communication. The punishment also offends the law.,,LOGO,education in managing money,Earning money to support ones family and managing the wealth are adults matter. Try every means to satisfy the children with the money.,Teach the child to make plans for budget items, learn to spend money reasonably. Encourage the child to work outside to gain income by themselves.,China,Western Countries,,LOGO,Education purpose is different,In china educations aim is to train the child into a talent, who has a bright future. A bright future means to get a good job and to lead a simple life all their life time.,In western educations aims are to train the child into a social man, who can deal with all kinds of events and own independent ability. It is not a high expectation. “Social man” is not an utopia idea, but a requirement which is practical and easy to achieve,,LOGO,Chinese family education and Western family education have their own characteristics.,Main problems in todays family education,,LOGO,Main problems in todays Chinese family education.,1. Parents mistake in conception of value and wrong activities leading.,,LOGO,Main problems in todays Chinese family education.,2. Utopian expectation of childrens education,,LOGO,Main problems in todays Chinese family education.,(autocratic,indulgent,careless),3. Harmful types of family education,,LOGO,Main problems in Western family education.,1. Indulgent type of family education,Different from Chinese family education, Ameirican indulgent type of family education had more harmful effection. Because over indulgent, it made a lot of social problems.Such as, teenage crime. In radio or TV, we sometimes can get a information that a 15-year-old boy shot his friend in the middle school.,,LOGO,Main problems in Western family education.,2. lack of communication,American think that every member in a family, he or she should had his or her own space. In their opinions, they cant interfere each other even they are in a family. And when a person is 18 years old, he may leave his parents. It means he has little time to stay with their parents. So they has less resposibility to their parents.,,LOGO,Main problems in Western family education,3. pay too much attention on happy learning,American take happy learning serious. But, in fact, happy learning is good when children are young. Only pay attention to happy, parents may find that childrens learning levels are declined. For example, some students who get used to happy learning, cant calculate without calculator.,,LOGO,Family May Hurt You,John Brasal,When a person grow up, all his behaviors are determined by the family environment when he was a child. Every child grows up under his parents family education, what kind a person will be, depends on what kind of family education he received.,Family May Hurt You,,LOGO,All in all, there are many differences between China and Western family